A Reddit user posting under the nickname Woofmeowbarkhiss detailed her relationship distress after checking her boyfriend`s smartphone. The user explained that the core problem stemmed from a prior agreement: they had mutually decided not to consume pornography, viewing it as a form of emotional cheating.
She recounted an earlier incident: «About a year ago, I looked through his phone and discovered two things in his Reddit browsing history. The first was a photo of a woman with enormous breasts—each comparable in size to a beach volleyball. The second was a fake link concerning a masturbation video leak of a well-known personality. I looked up the celebrity and found she also possesses quite substantial bust size,» the author lamented, noting that this physical preference closely matched her boyfriend`s previous sexual partner, whereas she herself is insecure about her own smaller chest.
A year after the initial discovery, the woman decided to check his phone again, this time specifically searching the device for the word «porn.» Instead of new searches, she uncovered a correspondence dating back four years between her boyfriend and his ex-partner. The messages contained numerous intimate exchanges about the ex`s cleavage; her boyfriend had repeatedly asked the ex to send photos of that body part and admitted it greatly aroused him.
What makes the situation a hundred times worse is that throughout all the years of our relationship, my boyfriend has never once asked me to send him photos of my breasts. He barely pays any attention to my chest, neither during sex nor at any other time. I`ve told him many times that this bothers me, yet nothing changes. The fact that he was so obsessed with her breasts and previously looked at images of large-chested women makes me feel utterly disgusted.
The distressed girlfriend wrote that this revelation had plunged her into extreme despair, leaving her feeling «insecure and repulsive.» Furthermore, she now experiences intense discomfort at the thought of her boyfriend seeing her naked and is contemplating ways to permanently conceal her chest from him.
(In related news, men previously discussed their true feelings about using the female chest for penile stimulation. One respondent noted that while he enjoyed the technique, proper lubrication was essential.)
